When you stop worrying about what appears in front of you as experience and focus your attention on the moment it’s self then you will be free from all struggle in life. You will see it was never actually a struggle but more of a false resistance within your own mind. You become your own worse enemy
Love is to be. To accept what is here and what is not here. To accept what ever comes as it comes. To accept all your insecurities as they are and let them be. Once you let everything be, and you be as you are. Then the freedom will shine through you and you will be Love.
If you want it that bad. You won’t stop until you get it. Do you hear me?
Meditation is the art of enjoying your aloneness, the art of transforming loneliness into aloneness, solitariness into solitude. Ordinarily you are not alone, you are lonely and of course loneliness is a state of misery. There is a constant hankering to be with the other, to be together. The lonely person is constantly asking for love.
Asking simply means that he is not at ease with himself, he wants somebody else to be occupied with. And of course this kind of love is not true love. If it is a need then there is a motive, if there is a need then it is businesslike. The other is being used as a commodity and the other is using you as a commodity; hence the continuous conflict between lovers.
Nobody wants to be reduced to a thing, nobody wants to be used as a means. That is a humiliation, it is a great insult, it is disrespectful. But that’s what lovers are doing, hence anger arises. They are constantly at each other’s necks. Excuses may be different but the fundamental thing is that both are incapable of being alone. Out of that incapability they are trying to be together. But if you cannot enjoy yourself in your aloneness you cannot enjoy yourself in togetherness either. Hence meditation is a first stop towards love.
May your day be free from obstacles and pointless worries!
lovethatwillnotfade said: Are you in my head?
Haha, This universe is a dream or one crazy trip!! Can’t even imagine it any different.
Let it Be, That is strength - to allow total weakness to happen without panic.
Be in your Stillness” —Mooji